Thursday, March 22, 2012

After going through Arcata in order to survey homeless people about their family, it became very clear to me that most homeless people do not want to talk about their family life, or really take a survey in general. The very first man I talked to was very friendly, and yet as soon as I even mentioned a survey he immediately wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. However I was able to find two homeless people willing to be surveyed, both of whom would prefer to remain nameless, who both had very different experiences with their family life. The first man I talked too actually still kept in touch with his mother every now and again, and was quite close with his sister. However they were forced to grow up without even knowing their father, and he says at this point he‘d rather not have his father be a part of his life. Although this man was still fairly close with his family, he still ended up homeless because financially his family couldn’t afford to have him stay. His mother simply couldn’t afford the things he’d need and they can‘t handle living under the same roof anyway. His sister is in a small apartment with her family, so there wasn’t enough space for him. Despite not being able to live with them, he says that he is still grateful for having his family to support him when he really needs it. He also says that he considers friends that he has met since becoming homeless to be family at this point, and they all support each other. The other man I interviewed has very different experiences with his family. He lived with his mother and father, but they got in many arguments, largely due to his drug use, though he believes there were many other factors that led to their difficult relationship. Because of all this, his parents finally kicked him out when he was only 19, and he hasn’t talked to them since for the past 12 years. He says that he really misses his parents, but doesn’t dare try and reach them because he is afraid of their reaction. He is not as close with as many people, but he says he considers his dog family to him. I found that most people long for family ties, and usually became homeless because something got in the way of those ties. However even in homelessness they try and keep in touch if they can, and develop new relationships with people that they consider to be their families.

3 comments:

  1. I'm glad you had success with your interviews. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to try to talk to homeless people about something as sensitive as family. It's a shame that one of the men you interviewed missed his parents, but didn't want to get in contact with them. It's also interesting to know that these men have created new families with friends they made. I know in my own family, my uncle became homeless about two years ago, and although he resides in the same area as his siblings and cousins, he doesn't bother to visit them. When one of my aunts saw him one day, she invited him to a couple of family gatherings, but he didn't show for any of them. It's a shame that he is also avoiding his family because we all still care about him and worry about him since the last time anyone has ever saw or heard from him was about six months ago.

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  2. I am very impressed you got there people to let you interview them!Seeing how different homeless people lives are affected by their families is very interesting! It would be fascinating to explore how homeless people with contact with their families and those without interact with the rest of society. Did you notice a difference between the two people with how they reacted with you? It would be cool to explore that further and see if people act differently with contact or no contact with family. Overall good interviews!

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  3. Im really impressed that you managed to get interviews for this blog post. It shows that you are very hardworking and dedicated to these blogs and your topic of research. I enjoyed reading this because in your interviews your interviewees are polar opposites. One still stays in contact with his family and the other is afraid to even talk to them because of what they will think of his situation. This is great because you were able to get their story out there and published. Keep up the good work.

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